personality development

The purpose of human life is to serve and to show compassion and the will to help others,says Albert Schweitzer Everybody needs help in some way or the other sometimes. There is no reason to hesitate yet many people still do. There are multiple reasons for not asking help. One might think he will not get the help or what he is asking for. Thus asking for help can be surprisingly hard even if it is a little thing. But you have to believe that one cannot tackle all the hindrances in owns life. You should make your connections carefully and a strong connection is always helpful. Even you know it’s a routine thing. Thus you don’t need any special guidance to ask for help but here are some tips to make you more comfortable while asking for a help. Make sure you need help: Before asking from anyone, you should be sure that you need help. One should always first try by himself rather than asking directly for help. If you need help, believe that you need help. Sometimes you need to let go of y...

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Sleep less. This is one of the best investments you can make to make your life more productive and rewarding . Most people do not need more than 6 hours to maintain an excellent state of health. Try getting up one hour earlier for 21 days and it will develop into a powerful habit. Remember, it is the quality not the quantity of sleep that is important. And just imagine having an extra 30 hours a month to spend on the things that are important to you. 2. Set aside one hour every morning for personal development matters. Meditate, visualize your day, read inspirational texts to set the tone of your day, listen to motivational tapes or read great literature. Take this quiet period to vitalize and energize your spirit for the productive day ahead. Watch the sun rise once a week or be with nature. Starting the day off well is a powerful strategy for self-renewal and personal effectiveness. 3. Do not allow those things that matter the most in your life be at the mercy of activities that m...

Imagine yourself making your first impression before any official or any other being. Obviously, you don't want your dignity stamped down to ground by letting a false impression on the opposite person. It is quite true that we enter in a state where we try to select the appropriate pose of our body. In fact, we concentrate more on the creating an impression on the opposite person rather than listening to what he is saying. The first and the foremost thing you must do when you meet any person is to greet him or her by shaking hands. Note that when you shake your hands, your palm must be faced exactly sideways, neither upwards nor downwards. Keeping your palm upwards while shaking hands shows that you have a submissive nature and keeping it downwards indicates that you have dominant nature. When you begin with greetings, you need to catch their attention and so you need to look them into their eyes. Look at them confidently, paying attention to each and every word the other person is...

One student asked his wise teacher, what is more important for a person: is it outer or inner beauty? In response to that the teacher asked his student: “Tell me, if you needed to buy a house, but you only had enough money for a beautiful outside, but a comfortless house, or a poor house, but warm and reliable. What would you choose?” “I would rather choose a simple outside but convenient inside house.” “But what if a vain person was buying a house, proud of his position, but not having enough resource to buy a beautiful and cosy house”, asked the teacher again. “Surely, he would prefer the outer beauty of the house”, answered the student. “I think you are right”, said the teacher and added, “but regardless of your choice, each of you would understand that you are missing beauty or comfort and would seek for it.” “So it means that outer and inner beauty is essentially equivalent and valuable only in harmony?...

“Starve your distractions, feed your focus” is a great quote. Distraction, extreme agitation of mind, is a thing that hinders a person from focussing on a particular thing. For example, when you keep a check on your mobile after every 10 minutes that is a distraction. When you are distracted you become less productive. Distraction can be costly. Distraction delays work and one should remain focused in order to avail most out of a situation or in a given time. We need to tackle it and devise ways to remain dedicated and focussed. Listed below are few ways that can help you: 1) Light scented candles or spray freshener: This will create an atmosphere of peace and will make you calm and composite. You can become less forgetful and more dedicated. 2) Move to a quiet place: When you are not able to focus and nothing else can be done then try to remove yourself from that place and be seated at a place where you find peace and you remain focused. 3) Organize things and segregate the...

1. Sleep less. This is one of the best investments you can make to make your life more productive and rewarding. Most people do not need more than 6 hours to maintain an excellent state of health. Try getting up one hour earlier for 21 days and it will develop into a powerful habit. Remember, it is the quality not the quantity of sleep that is important. And just imagine having an extra 30 hours a month to spend on the things that are important to you. 2. Set aside one hour every morning for personal development matters. Meditate, visualize your day, read inspirational texts to set the tone of your day, listen to motivational tapes or read great literature. Take this quiet period to vitalize and energize your spirit for the productive day ahead. Watch the sun rise once a week or be with nature. Starting the day off well is a powerful strategy for self-renewal and personal effectiveness. 3. Do not allow those things that matter the most in your life be at the mercy of activities that ma...

People have always relayed the word #goal with earning. We can say we achieved our #goals only if we are earning #goodbucks, this is what a common man thinks. But achieving a goal is not just based on how much a person earns. To achieve a goal basically, means to be at a position you had always dreamt of and worked for. The main and #root quality you must have is love. #Love for what you do. We always go after what we love. If you do what you love, this love emerges out with #passion, dedication, and hard #work towards the work. This will #develop your #supremacy over your work. When you do the work and that too with too much of ease, this will make you an expert in that particular field, the dominator of that field. You will be at the #pinnacle of what you’ve always dreamt. This gives you the satisfaction and the #happiness you always deserved for the times you strived to #earn that #niche of your life. This makes you a successful person. This is how you can achieve your goal. Wh...

  “The most polluting element in the earth’s environment is the spread of electromagnetic fields. I consider that to be a far greater threat on a global scale than warming, or the increase of chemical elements in the environment.”, says Dr. Robert Becker. Studies proved, most people can’t live without their cell phones. And it becomes worse when people would rather look into their phones while talking to a real person. Also, it has been proved that people wake in the morning and the first thing they look out for is a mobile phone. This is called Nomophobia. Nomophobia is the fear of being without your smartphone, or more simply smartphone addiction. Want to defeat this phobia? Here are the some of the key tips to get rid of mobile phone addiction. 1. Change phone Settings: Select a low notification setting. Lesser notifications means less distractions and cravings to look at your smartphone. You know a single notification can lead to wastage of one hour. Fortunately, notifications...

Everyone knows and believes that everyone is born with their own features and all are unique with their personality. We all are different with different behaviors. But being likeable doesn’t come from birth always. You can also add the following features to make yourself likeable and impress your surroundings. 1. Keep Smiling: A smile can heal any pain. It is so powerful to catch anyone’s attention. Have a pretty smile on your face always. It really has so much to improve your appearance and attitude. 2. Don’t be judgemental: There are good and bad in everything. Don’t always decide or judge about somebody. What you see for that instance may not tell you the whole story about the person. Be respectful towards others. 3. Be open: Don’t hide something in yourself. Speak out if you feel good or bad. Try to mingle with the group. How much ever you socialize with people, that much you will become likeable. 4. Be confident: Never have a doubt about yourself and y...

Here, in our words, we can define Criticism as an opinion, more kind of a disapproval, which is according to one's belief and traditions. Imagine you are doing some kind of work, and you ask out for feedback about it. We can easily judge it by either good or bad. Now there are high chances, where the good work is not appreciated by some group of people. And the resulting opinion in such scenarios is termed as Criticism. Now the positive aspect of this is that you will be able to make the needed improvements in your work. Thus making it better and better with passing time. Some of the tips for taking the criticism constructively are: 1) Try to be as frank as possible, because you should be able to justify yourself whenever the need arises. 2) Be true to yourself. This means that, if you find any point valid in the criticism made, then try to accept it instead of proving it wrong. 3) You need to Listen more here. Most of the people jump into conclusions without listening. So if you w...

“Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible poverty” - Mother Teresa Feeling of loneliness and sadness can envelop a person’s being and can break him completely. Such feelings may crop up when you experience loss of a dear one, a broken relationship, failure or set back education wise or career wise or it may be the result of hopelessness arising out of having no goals in life. Loneliness can hit anyone, anytime. You be wealthiest of the lot with people flocking around you and yet you may feel lonely. It could be a result of an incident that may have occurred in the past and you may have started feeling its effect now. Here are few pointers on How to tackle loneliness and sadness 1) This too shall pass: Remember that nothing is permanent. You can choose to be happy and contented over feeling sad and lonely. You have the option to choose. Make your choices wisely. And if you choose to come out of such feeling of dejection then you shall have to d...

Socializing is defined as accepting the ideologies and terms of the society. But nowadays it has come up with a different meaning. By socializing today we mean making friends or for corporate people making contacts that will be beneficial in the future. Socializing is easy when you have a cheerful and enthusiastic mindset. Some suggestions on how to socialize are: 1. Just be yourself: The right people will be with you only when you are being yourself as fakeness cannot be with you forever. If you are an introvert be mysterious, if you are into sports or public speaking then just being humble can make you socialize better. The key here is being optimistic and loving yourself as you are. 2. Start by doing small things: Pay attention to how you look, be sure of your body language, it should be friendly. Listen more than you talk and try to have a one-on-one conversation with people. The key here is to make friends with all age groups. This will expand your knowledge too. Just be nice t...

“Addiction is the only prison that locks you on the inside.”, goes a famous quote. It is a mental disorder that causes a type of relaxation to the brain. It is a need for habit-forming substances such as alcohol or drugs. Addiction is a devil that resides within us. Addiction is easy to develop but hard to quit. According to a survey, nearly 60% of the youth now a day is addicted to drugs, alcohol or smoking. You need to develop a self-help manual or get some inspiration to get rid of it. Some of the helpful tips are: 1. Gather some self-help books: A lot of self-help books are available when it comes to quitting alcohol, smoking or drugs. Some of them include: I need to stop drinking, Seven Weeks to Sobriety: The Proven Program to Fight Alcoholism Through Nutrition, Drinking to Distraction etc. 2. Friends: Whether you want to quit something or start something, they are always a reason. They can help you through this too. Just tell them about your decision and tell them why you took it...

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Reposting @arispasho123: Your Do Not Define You I went bankrupt once… That does not define me. I got depressed for 4 years… That is not who I am. I choose my destiny. My mistakes do not define me. This morning, I was reading about a guy named Paul… One of the best friends of Jesus who ended up giving in to fear and denying his friend 3 times in a very short space of time. He was so scared that he would be taken away and be beaten for even knowing this man and so he lied three times to protect his own back… But that did not define him He went on to do better, be better and create a heck of a lot more than that. His mistakes did not define him. What of you? Are you still living life out of the past? Are you still telling yourself that what you did before is what you must always do? Are you still limiting yourself based on some past illness or past behaviour? When will you free yourself from the past and choose a new future? You can, you know… the future is not created yet, you get to ch...

There was a time when we used to tell friends: “Lets meet & plan something” and now we say: “Let’s plan and meet some day”. That’s how the life change.

You will never be able to start a new chapter of your life unless you stop looking back at the last one.

Over-thinking ruins you. Ruins the situation, twists things around, makes you worry & just makes everything much worse than it actually is.

My parents told me: “You’ve got to stop watching so much TV, and read more!” so I turned on the subtitles.